All posts by Rebecca Michelle

Educator, traveler, reader, blogger. Loves learning, black coffee, and friendly people.

‘Twas the Night Before Thanksgiving

Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday and I all I want to do right now is go home. My friends are arriving from various parts of the country to spend Thanksgiving with their families, students and teachers are off school Wednesday, Thursday, and Friday to celebrate, people get together to laugh, play football, and eat delicious fall foods. It’s my favorite time of year and it’s really hard to be away from home right now.

Not much has improved at school since I wrote about the teachers who left. A week later, another cowoker left the country and went home, which was absolutely devastating because I worked very closely with him and his students. It also fell to me to tell his students (and our boss, for that matter), which made for the worst day I have ever spent in a classroom. We all cried, and I have never cried in front of students. And I don’t mean I dabbed at my eyes with a tissue; I watched the students mourn their loss, and it was terrible.

A new teacher for one of the classes showed up from Australia on Thursday, which was really exciting. She was with the students for part of the day on Friday, called in sick Monday, went home sick Tuesday, and called in sick again today, Wednesday. When I got home from the gym tonight there was a note under my door from her telling our boss that her “heart isn’t in it here.”

That was quick. (Guess it’s my job to break the news again.)

That should also give you a good idea of how things are.

Intellectually, I know why I came and I know why I’m here. I came to teach and to learn and I’m here to teach and to learn. Physically, emotionally, spiritually, I’ve got nothing. Mitch and I gave up a lot to move to Malaysia so I could try out teaching at an international school. We were talking very seriously about The Question, talking about a buying a house, talking about what we wanted out of life.

I can’t regret coming to Malaysia because I believe it was the right idea at the time, but there are days when I yearn to go back in time and change it all.

Travel Guide: Bangkok

Our latest adventures took us to Bangkok where we primarily explored food and temples. Everything I’ve hear about Bangkok is true – it’s wild, it’s crowded, it smells, it’s beautiful. Bangkok is an astonishing mixture of old and new, rich and poor, traditional and modern. Mitch and I were there Friday night to Sunday morning and these photos provide just a taste at what we saw and experienced. We already have a list of what to do next time we go!

View from our hotel
View from our hotel

The Sky Train was our primary means of transportation and I really liked it because you can see quite a lot of Bangkok from the slow train up in the air. The stations are also really close together so train journeys are a lot shorter than they look.

Bangkok view
Bangkok view

Saturday morning took us to Chatuchak Market, a massive outdoor market selling literally everything one could hope to buy. The food smelled and look delicious, but we had already eaten. If you go, go hungry!

 

I particularly enjoyed our trip down the river in one of the many water taxis. Again, this was a great way to see the mixture of temples and religious sites and fancy hotels along the water. I also really love boats and it was fun to see the sheer variety that crowd the river and canals. Be warned: The smaller water taxis fly along and the journey can be rather harrowing for those not comfortable in the water. However, it’s a unique experience that does provide quite a bit of sight-seeing.

 

The water taxis claim:

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But of course they’re not.

Since we were in Thailand, we felt it was only fitting to enjoy real Pad Thai and Thai iced tea. As with most food that we’ve tried in Southeast Asia, the “real thing” is sweeter and far less saucy than its imitation back home. Delicious!

Mitch and his favorite non-alcoholic beverage!
Mitch and his favorite non-alcoholic beverage!
Pad Thai - One of the most delicious things I have eaten since arriving in Southeast Asia
Pad Thai – One of the most delicious things I have eaten since arriving in Southeast Asia

Most of Saturday found us exploring temples. We took a tuk-tuk to see Wat Intharawihan, a beautiful temples complex containing a 32m-tall Buddha statue. There are Buddhist temples all over Bangkok and each one had people praying, which was interesting to watch. We were allowed in one of the temples in this particular complex; as always, temples are a no-shoes zone. The stone steps were really hot!

 

We also visited the Grand Palace, another complex containing the palace (obviously) and massive, stunning, opulent, and literally jaw-dropping temples and statues. It was incredibly touristy but, I think, worth seeing. There were monks visiting and taking photos, too, which made me laugh because I don’t think of monks as real people. In some capacities, though, I guess they are.

 

One of my favorite wanderings near the Grand Palace brought us through streets and alleys that had been turned into a market. As usual, people were frying meat, peddling fresh fruit, and there were tables full of various souvenirs and items I couldn’t even try to name. I wish we’d had more time to go explore other neighborhoods of the city. Next time, I suppose!

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Throughout the city, Mitch and I couldn’t help but marvel at Bangkok’s answers to modern the need for electricity. American electricians would probably start to cry.


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If nothing else, though, Bangkok is pragmatic. We found both normal boxes of condoms and mixed fruit flavored boxes of condoms in the basket of snacks in our hotel room. There were also people on the street selling sex toys and protection along with various juices, baked goods, and meats on sticks.

I really loved seeing shrines everywhere – in parking lots, in parks, in alleys – and constant reminders of the importance of religion to the Thai people.

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Never in my wildest dreams did I actually think I’d get to visit Bangkok. Amazingly enough, it’s only a two-hour flight away.

29 Days

There are 29 school days between now and Christmas break and all the expats are making travel plans. 29 school days is actually a lot, but if we talk about it often enough maybe it will feel closer. Some of my coworkers booked their flights home as soon as the calendar was finalized in September. Others, such as myself, waited.

Waited for what, you ask? Thanks for asking, but I’m not sure.

My original plan was to travel around Australia and New Zealand because I’m so much closer than I ever would be from just about anywhere else. A little bit of research about a month ago told me that the flights were way more expensive than I’d anticipated. Maybe that would not have been the case had I looked into it earlier, but I didn’t.

Then there was the plan of my parents and brother coming to visit me, but Mum wasn’t exactly keen. I have not provided her with a complimentary description of Malaysia, and while we would travel rather than stay in Seremban, of course, Malaysia is really far away from America’s East Coast. It’s just not worth a 10-day trip because at least 4 days are eaten up by travel.

My sister is working as an au pair in Spain until the end of June and Mum and Dad decided it would be much easier to visit Spain over Christmas. (And Mum likes creature comforts and hygiene more than anyone I’ve ever met, so she probably wouldn’t do terribly well in Malaysia.) The family Bri is working for has given her the whole school break off, too! It’s convenient that my siblings and I, currently in three different countries, have the same school break. After discussion and a look at flight options, I decided that Christmas in Spain was the way to go.

Last night I booked my flights so I’m officially going to Spain with my family for Christmas! I am so excited to see them and spend time with them, but also a little nervous. I think it’s going to be extremely difficult to say goodbye and come back to Seremban, especially considering I wouldn’t call myself happy here.

Ironically enough, I’d been talking about going to Australia for Christmas before I even arrived in Malaysia and it’s summer there now, as it is here all the time. What don’t I have with me? Winter clothes. Back home, three-quarters of my wardrobe was winter things and I have exactly zero of them. I don’t even have a pair of closed-toe shoes! Or a long-sleeved shirt! Everything I left at home is in boxes in Mum and Dad’s basement, so one day Mum and I will go through my things via FaceTime and she’ll pack a bag for me. I’ll do some quick shopping here to obtain warm things to get me through travel and one day because I land about 8 hours earlier than my family.

Never thought that lack of winter clothes would be a problem for this Montreal-born, upstate-New-York-raised girl. Goes to show you what I know! Note to self: Next trip around the world, squeeze in a pair of flats and a sweatshirt.