I got my hair cut today. This is a big deal because I think the last time I got my hair cut was three years ago. And it’s an even bigger deal because I asked the stylist to straighten it.
I normally wear my hair down and just let it do whatever it’s going to do. This is a coping mechanism – equal parts resignation, exasperation, and experience. Sometimes it looks great and I love it, like in the picture above. It really is that curly and I really do have natural red highlights, which sometimes show up.
Since I’m asked this a lot, these are my current hair products:
Most people have never seen me with straight hair. I’ve rarely seen me with straight hair, actually. Once upon a time, about three years ago, I wrote about having curly hair and I straightened my hair to make a point. I don’t think I’ve had straight hair since.
And yet, here we are again!
On a recommendation from my mum’s stylist at Tru Salon in Rochester, NY, I went to the Aveda Institute here in New York City to have my hair trimmed by a student stylist. I’ve had enough bad haircuts as a curly-haired person to avoid a) getting my hair cut entirely and b) paying a lot of money for a haircut. Rachel, my mum’s stylist, assured me that the Aveda Institute sees a lot of curly patrons because getting a good curly haircut can be such a challenge and a huge expense.
It’s only hair, right? It’ll grow back, right?
Normally I’d say yes, but that’s precisely the problem.
I haven’t cut my hair in three years because it doesn’t grow. I’ve dreamt of long, flowing curly locks for enough years to know I’ll never have them, even though I follow all of these tips.
Oh yeah. Except for the one about regular trims. Oops.
So off the the Aveda Institute I went!
At the Aveda Institute, student stylists have to get the procedure and each stage of the process approved by an instructor. While this might make some patrons nervous, I understand the need to practice on real humans to learn your trade (I’m a teacher, after all). I truly encourage everyone to look into the Aveda Institute if you’re looking for a top-quality, inexpensive service. After all, students are very careful and deliberate because they’re still learning and you have the benefit of an expert stylist watching each step of the way.
My student stylist, Mary, told me everything I already knew about my hair – it’s surprisingly healthy and hydrated, surprisingly soft, and surprisingly fine. She was surprised that I haven’t cut it in so long. People usually are. What made me happy is that she understood exactly what I wanted and clearly explained how she was going to make my hair look even healthier (and hopefully grow). Even better, the instructors agreed with her! I dread the oft-heard question, “How do they usually cut your hair?” from a stylist, indicating that curly hair like mine is unfamiliar. Mary’s confidence made me feel at ease and since she had the scissors, that was probably a good thing.
Reasons to Visit the Aveda Institute
- They provide a wide range of salon services (I’ll probably be back soon for a facial)
- They serve tea
- It’s fun to watch the students style and color mannequins’ hair
- The students are very conscientious
- Instructors check every step of the process and make some adjustments along the way
- It’s very, very affordable and reasonably priced
One thing to note: If you want to tip, they only accept cash and don’t have an ATM.
When Mary was done, I asked her to take some pictures:
Hey, everybody! I have long, flowing locks! Amazing. Darn all that curl shrinkage.
Unfortunately, my hair won’t look like this tomorrow. I don’t own a comb, brush, blow dryer, or straightening iron (or blush, eyeshadow, or lipstick) so it’ll either be back to curls or up in a ponytail. But it’s super fun to feel it swish against my back and the sides of my face! It’s always the little things, right?
So after three years, about a 1/2-inch of split ends have been cut off and my layers are relayered. I’m looking forward to seeing what my hair looks like curly!
If you have tips, tricks, or hints to share, I’d love to hear them! I’m pretty low-maintenance (could you tell?) but surprisingly vain when it comes to my hair. Happy to hear anything you’ve got! Comment below or through the contact page. Cheers, curly girls!
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Wow! Looks great! But I’m your Grandma……and I love it any way…..because I love you.
You are too sweet ❤
Well. Here I am in Johannesburg, awash in curly hair from the heat and humidity…but my curls are fabulous! However, I understand exactly what you mean! I’ve really only had a very few really good hair stylists in my life and many bad haircuts. I can count on one hand how many times I’ve straightened my hair. At the end, we curly girls are very lucky and I love my hair( and yours!)….. Love, “auntie” Faigie
I’m sure your hair is amazing! Can’t wait to hear about your trip!
Thanks so much!
Hi Rebecca~ I am so glad you had such a wonderful expierence at the Aveda Institute! We’re dying to see an after pic 😀
I’ll see if I can get someone to take one!